The beginning of a student career marks many changes in students and their relationships with family and friends. It can also mean changes in beliefs, values, behaviours, and attitudes. Parents and family members provide a crucial support base for these new experiences. Understanding and adjusting to these changes is an exciting challenge for both students and parents. Parents play a vital role in the lives of students, and many students still count on their parents to remain a steady and stable source of support and guidance. Parents can serve as mentors, offering advice and encouragement, while also promoting the independence, autonomy, and responsibility that are necessary for student life.
From the increased academic workload to the pressures of making new friends to the new amount of unstructured time, students may experience a great deal of stress or anxiety related to their new responsibilities as a university student. You can help your student prepare for these new responsibilities by discussing expectations ahead of time and by allowing your student to practice these skills before arriving to campus. The more comfortable your student feels about managing these responsibilities, the less stressful they will seem in the fall. In particular, the following are some of the experiences that many students feel are big adjustments when they come to campus:
Doing own groceries, meals or laundry
You can help by making sure your child knows how to operate machines, cook basic meals, use healthy products, understand clothing labels and symbols, and separate laundry as needed. Practicing before leaving home is a big help.
Sharing a room
You can help by teaching your student to respect a roommate's personal space, property, and unique differences. You can teach your student how to communicate in personal relationships, how to set ground-rules with a roommate, and how to ask University staff for help when necessary.
Scheduling own health appointments/managing prescriptions
You can help by allowing your student to make health appointments before coming to college and by installing in your student a sense of personal responsibility for health-related issues. You can also make sure your student knows the health history and has all of the necessary health insurance information prior to arrival to campus. Stress out the importance of enlisting to health centre after arrival in Poland.
Using public transportation
You can help by providing the opportunity for students to practice using public transportation. Make sure that your student knows how to interpret the bus schedules, use transportation app, arrange for air/bus/train transportation. All necessary rules of using local transport in Poland or Lodz city are given to newcomers in a guide sent at the end of August.
Communicating with University staff and faculty
You can help by having your student take responsibility for communication with the University. Students should feel comfortable with seeking assistance from University staff, both administration and academics as well. Students should know which department to call when problems arise. You can help by resisting the urge to "come to the rescue" by contacting the University departments yourself. Instead, encourage your student to contact the University departments directly at the very beginning. By encouraging students to take responsibility for themselves, parents and family members demonstrate confidence in their students. This confidence empowers students to be self-reliant and independent.
Living within a budget
You can help by establishing a weekly or monthly budget with your student. Teach your student how to plan for regular expenses (dormitory bills, personal supplies, groceries), as well as unexpected/infrequent expenses (new clothes, health care expenses, replacing broken property, etc.). Make sure they know how to balance a checking/debit account before they come to Lodz. You can help by discussing expectations ahead of time. Should your student use a debit-only system or use a credit card? Teach your student how to accurately compare financial services offers, how to read the “fine print,” and how to act responsibly when it comes to debt management. It might be also helpful by teaching your child how to accurately read billing statements, how to keep organized so that bills are not paid late, and how to resolve problems if bills are inaccurate. Students are responsible for payment by the due date.
General safety
You can help by communicating your expectations about safety, alcohol and other drugs, discussing family values regarding alcohol and drug use, educating your student about Polish national and campus rules. Alcohol is easy accessible in Poland, however student cannot drink in public open spaces or University campus. Please make your student aware that any drugs in Poland are forbidden and may result into imprisonment up to 10 years. You can help by teaching your child ways to keep property safe (such as locking doors, bikes, and laptops), and by teaching your student that personal and property safety are individual responsibilities.